Sunday, February 24, 2013

Principal Sponsors: Duties in Detail


The typical Filipino wedding is characterized by the long line-up of ninongs and ninangs or the godparents. Their names appear in the invitation under the heading "principal sponsors." According to Rita Neri's The Essential Wedding Workbook for the Filipina, "ninongs and ninangs are senior men and women, preferably married, who are either family members or close friends of the couple's parents."
Ninongs and ninangs are expected to serve as the couple's second parents or counselors especially when the newlyweds' parents are no longer there to guide them.
According to the Bride's Maids and Co.'s Veil, in the Philippines, the social status of the wedding is dictated by its line-up of principal sponsors. Hence, it is not surprising that prominent personalities are often asked to be a ninong or ninang. Neri adds that it is rare for a Filipino to refuse to be a godparent not only because of the honor that goes with it but because it is considered unlucky to do so.
The law requires at least two wedding sponsors or witnesses. Veil suggests two to four pairs of principal sponsors for small weddings while larger weddings can do with a maximum of six to eight pairs. After a couple has finalized the line-up, they are advised to personally invite their soon-to-be godparents, a phone call or letter just won't do. Principal sponsors are also expected to grace the despedida de soltera.

Maid of Honor: Her Duties in Detail



The maid/matron of honor is part worker bee, part emotional lifeboat. Chosen for your energetic, get-the-ball-in-motion qualities, you should also remember that listening to the bride, making her laugh, and offering emotional and logistical support are also part of your honor attendant package. Here's what's expected:



Before the wedding:

Be the leader of the female entourage members — the bridesmaids and flower girls.
Help the bride in drafting the guest list and addressing the invitations.
Accompany the bride in sourcing out the wedding suppliers.
Inform the guests where the couple has set up their bridal registry.
Host or organize the bridal shower.
Help organize the rehearsal dinner or despedida de soltera. Make sure that the entourage members are in full attendance.

During the wedding day:

Make sure that the bridesmaids and flower girls are properly made up and have their bouquets.
Assist the bride as she prepares in her room.
Make sure that no wedding accessories are left behind before leaving the house or hotel.
Fix the bride’s veil, gown, bouquet and train before and during the ceremony. Carry the bride’s purse, if any.
Assist in the signing of the marriage contract. 

At the reception:

Help welcome and assist the guests to their seats.
Collect any gift envelopes.
Make sure the bride eats something at the reception.
Make a speech honoring the couple. (optional)
Help the bride change for the honeymoon and pack her bag.
All throughout the preparations, always be the shoulder to cry on, to present a patient ear and assure the bride with warm hugs and soothing words.


Bridesmaid: Duties in Detail


Being a bridesmaid means more than wearing a silky gown and having flowers on your hair. Knowing your duties may come in handy, especially when someone blurts out ala-soft drinks commercial — "Bridesmaid ka lang?"
Bridesmaids are chosen for being the closest and most trustworthy female relatives and girlfriends of the bride. They support the maid of honor and help with the numerous pre-wedding tasks. On the wedding day, they likewise double as usherettes.
To be a good bridesmaid:
Before the Wedding
Offer your help. It would be nicer if you are specific when you volunteer rather than asking, "What can I do?"
Help organize the bridal shower or bachelorette party. 
Attend the dress rehearsal (if any). 
Help maintain lists such as the gift registry and the RSVP.
On the Wedding Day
Assist the maid or matron of honor in her duties. 
Help usher guests and guide them to their assigned seats (if there is such an arrangement).
Make sure wedding accessories such as the veil, pillows, flowers are in order.
At the Reception
Assist in welcoming and ushering in guests. 
Go around and invite the guests sign the signature frame or the guest book.
When it’s time for the bouquet toss, please get out there and at least try to catch the bouquet. Do not let the bride throw the bouquet over and over again.
Distribute the give-aways

Best Man: His Duties in Detail


You've wrecked his favorite toy truck when you were kids, you've played endless afternoon basketball games together, you've helped him set up surprise romantic dinners for his girlfriend. Now, your best bud has asked you to be his best man at his wedding. You know this is not a game so you better learn your duties - fast.
Before the Wedding:
Provide moral support to the groom. 
Accompany the groom in picking out his barong or tuxedo. 
Organize the bachelor’s party. 
Emcee the rehearsal dinner or party, if any. 
Lead the groomsmen.
On the Wedding Day:
Accompany the groom to breakfast or lunch. Make sure he eats something (grooms may faint at the ceremony, too!). 
Help in ushering in the guests. 
Accompany the groom to the church. 
Keep track of the wedding rings. 
Bring a pen and an extra handkerchief. 
Escort the maid of honor down the aisle (your easiest duty so far!) 
Assist in the signing of the marriage contract. 
At the Reception:
Help welcome and assist the guests to their seats. 
Toast the newlyweds. Two words for the speech: short and sweet. 
Help the groom pack his things for the honeymoon. 
If you’re sober enough, you could drive the newlyweds to the airport

Groomsmen: Duties in Detail



A member of your barkada is taking the plunge, the rest of you are his groomsmen. Consider this one an honor, and with this honor comes great responsibility.
Don’t fret, these aren’t mind-numbing duties:
Before the Wedding:
Help the best man plan the bachelor party, the last night your bud parties with you as a single man. Just make sure the wedding will still push through after this party. 
Attend pre-wedding parties like the despedida de soltera and rehearsal dinner. 
Gather the rest of your barkada and think up a perfect gift for the groom. 
On the Wedding Day:
Help usher guests to their seats. 
Assist the best man in his duties.
At the Reception:
Assist in welcoming and ushering in guests. 
Participate in the garter throw. 
Dance with the bridesmaids or other female guests. (asking them to dance could be your hardest task so far.) 

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Venue Hunting: Light of Love Events Place

Name: Light of Love
Location: Santol Street, Quezon City

Contact Info: 714 7989/ 714 3871

Notes: a gem at the center of manila. i really can't imagine finding something like this within manila area. a residential house turned events venue. i find this place perfect for my vintage-themed wedding.:) their partnership with k by cunanan makes me want to book them asap. ;D





atrium

atrium

atrium

atrium

bridal suite

atrium entrance

entrance

entrance

back garden

say cheese!


Venue Hunting: Plaza San Luis Complex

Name: Plaza San Luis Complex
Location: Corner Real & General Luna St. Intramuros, Manila
Contact Info: 527 4084/ 527 4088
Notes: Casa Manila is divided into 3 venues: Casa Manila Patio, Casa Blanca, Teatrillo
nice venue, walking distance from san agustin church, spanish-style structure, love the feel inside this complex but i think this venue is too old already. still perfect for filipiniana-themed wedding.


Casa Manila Entry

Casa Manila Entry

Casa Manila Patio

To Teatrillo

Teatrillo

Teatrillo interior

To Casa Blanca

Casa Blanca (cocktail area)

Casa Blanca

Casa Blanca

Casa Blanca

Casa Blanca

Casa Blanca

Casa Blanca (back entry)



Venue Hunting: La Castellana

Name: La Castellana
Location: Cabildo Corner Beaterio St., Intramuros, Manila
Contact Info: 986 2691/ 527 1848
Notes: nice venue, spanish-modern design, NO to the L-shaped layout, NO to the existing black bars at ceiling, nice chandeliers, spacious bridal suite, non-aircon, near san agustin church, i find the price unreasonable for this kind of venue

















Monday, February 18, 2013

Engagement Shoot [Stylist]

Stylist:
Yours Truly, Myself :))

GROOM'S ATTIRE:
G2000 Long Sleeves (light green, pink, black)
Orange T-shirt from Topshop
Black Slacks
Khaki Pants

ACCESSORIES:
Hat
Suspenders

FOOTWEAR:
Pedro
Toms

BRIDE'S ATTIRE:
White top & Black tube from Zara
Black Dress from Forever 21
Floral Dress from Bugis
Green Chiffon Skirt from Bugis

ACCESSORIES:
Buri Hat from Ebay
Pearl Necklace (gift from the groom)
Green necklace (gift from a friend)
Belt from Bugis
Earrings/ Bracelets from Diva

FOOTWEAR:
Pedro Woman
Havaianas Slippers













Photo Credits: Richard Sanuco
(posted pics in raw/unedited version)